Maid from hell?

I hired a maid on 15th June 2019 from Medan, Indonesia. On the first day, she asked if my mother has an extra green jade bangle for her!!! The reason I hired her was to take care of mum who had a fall and suffered compressed disc of the spine, etc. She also had diarrhea and it comes out almost non stop. Youngest sis, wanted to send mum to a nursing home since she sent granny and dad to nursing homes and refuse to let them come back. It was not karma as I intervened and said mum is to recuperate in Quayside Condo and immediately hired a maid from a 'joker factory' for her. The maid was Yati, I call her yeti, the beast. She had the audacity to break the glass door with so many lines of cracks to show her dissatisfaction when mum asked that youngest one help distribute my late father's estate to me and youngest sis, bypassing the second sis, since she did not contribute a cent for 5 years while doing her Ph.D. which took from 3 years to 5 years.

Yeti even used mum's handphone to download 25-30 apps of Dangdut music with baby laughing so loudly being played. I had the impression, yeti was using her own handphone since she secretly found her handphone in the drawer that I kept away from her. Well, her itchy hands just love to open and discover new things and perhaps look for loose cash here and there!

Mum's bone's density has more or less recovered at age 80 from osteoporosis to osteopenia. This means that the Forteo injection that costs RM 1,600 a month using dad's pension was helping her bone density. In the first 3 days, she even wanted to borrow RM 500 from mum, then me and then sis. It was all youngest sis' fault; spoiling her to bits by giving her 3 nightgowns, and more than 10 pieces of her branded t-shirts that she could no longer wear for the last 10 years. Yeti became bold and brazen, disobeyed orders and finished up my Ensure milk even though she has her own cheaper milk that we gave to her! I only drank 3 cups and the RM 84 Ensure milk tin was finished.

She also ate out 'bak kua' without permission. She will cut them into pieces and fry with rice for her dinner and other meals. There were 12 pieces of 'bak kua', where I had 4, mum 1, my spouse 1 and there rest, she just 'hau kor' away. Well for being disobedient, too brazen and bold, I decided to shorten her stay from 3 months to 2 months and that very day, she slammed the door showing her anger. The agent seems to inform her what's happening or rather the agent's other maid seems to inform yeti of her early dismissal. Well, good riddance to bad rubbish this 15th August 2019, her last day. Also mum's RM 10 is missing and we cannot let yeti stay at home in Island Park since mum's cash is kept all over the house including her costly jewelry.

Now Staying at Quayside

I am now staying at Quayside, mainly to look after mum and keep an eye on the maid. My Gosh, the maid is rather talkative, but I guess she is very happy staying here and working for us. She's like another family member since we give her catered food all to herself and she sleeps with mum in a master bedroom to change mum's pampas frequently at night. She even sings when she eats her food, so delighted to find so many dishes and spoilt to bits. She comes from East Java, a christian, takes pork and loves us. Well, she's pretty lucky and we are also blessed to have a maid instantly from Jeffrey Pan.

DAD, I love you.

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Dad, I am truly sorry, if I hurt you in the past. I was the rebellious one in the family and I know it hurts a lot to see your offspring a bit wayward. I was sent to 'tangki' to rid of evil and at that time, we were not yet Christians. Forget about the past, now it is time to light candles for you as perpetual light to shine upon your soul and may you rest in peace and to hasten the path to heaven from purgatory. As this is your faith and believe, I shall honor it and try to light more candles on a more frequent basis like the youngest sister does weekly for you. I guess it is a form of prayer for you too. Though the teeth and the tongue may grind at each other, nevertheless you are my dad and you gave me life! I love you DAD, despite the occasional awkwardness. It is time to Rest in Peace and enjoy Life in Heaven with Jesus, Dear DAD. Where there is no pain, suffering, aging, diseases, sickness, being in adult pampas as you could no longer control your bladder, could no longer walk unaided and being left to stay in a nursing home.

Many jobs but don't qualify

There are many jobs online but I don't qualify as it is overseas. And they pay in the region of hundreds to be collected by check or PayPal after completing surveys. Well, I cannot access the surveys and they lead from one survey to another which is a waste of my time. In the end, I have to delete these surveys one by one on my email. Some ask personal questions while others are more lenient. It is 1:25am here, I guess, I have to stop here.

With Great 'Wealth', comes Many 'Friends'

When you have perceived wealth, you have will many fake friends all out to get a slice of the pie. They are very friendly to you, hoping to get something out of nothing and to feed their kids! Otherwise, it is hell for the spouse who discouraged all this nonsense. They won't leave you alone and make use of the security guards to inform them of your homecoming to the stupid condo at Times Square through various means like the mosque blaring out or the MBPP hooting their cars to send signals. This is to teach you a lesson for not being generous with their kids and ignoring them. This stupid Ooi Bee Lian joined the committee to get such great influence via the committee and lives at the same floor at the corner. It is indeed very disturbing that this should happen due to money and perceived wealth when my boss or spouse owes more than 1 million to the IRB due to being a director of 7 failed companies in the past and now his past is coming back to haunt him. Do I have a choice to get out of this toxic relationship? Well, beggars are not choosers, sad to say, due to my health condition.

Nestle Dropped Drastically

As much as Nestle went up exponentially, the counter also dropped drastically since it was published in the press to sell or to hold on as it could go beyond its intrinsic value. I did make some money through Nestle share counter and right now it is paper loss. I will hold on for it to go up again, hopefully before elections. The dividends will be given out on 31st May 2018 according to the press. By the way, it is the most expensive share prior to the drop for a consumer product. I do make a few hundreds to a thousands here and there via the stock market investing using technical analysis.

Nestle - the most expensive counter on BURSA Malaysia

Since its last trade, it was a high of 128 ringgit a share! This is easily the highest counter or most expensive share on BURSA Malaysia. For the record, Nestle is the biggest food producer in the world; selling products like Milo, Nescafe, Maggi noodles, Cremaria ice-cream, Purina pet food, Omega-3 milk powder and more. I do buy 1- 3 lots of shares of Nestle and made good profits, in the thousands and hundreds. It is so much easier than writing articles for so much work and little income. For Trip101 travel articles, you need to write at least 1,000 words plus editing pictures for a mere USD 10.